What Makes A Woman Fall In Love
In response to the posting of What Makes A Man Fall In Love, I have to post the secret to What Makes A Woman Fall In Love!
Unlike men who know from the beginning that the woman they are dating is not the one for them, woman don't have this automatic intuition, as our comes later on down the line when we have gotten to know the man. Just like a man, women love being in love. We love being honored, cherished, romanced, and when we love, we love hard.
A Man That Can Speak Proper English
There is nothing worse than when a man who everytime he opens his mouth slang comes out of it. For example, "what up miss, how you!", "Yo shorty!", "Yo Ma!" "Yo son, what the deal son!", "Yo B, What's good!", "What up my nigga!" Every other word that he knows is either a curse word or a slang word. Using proper English is such a turn on as it shows Intelligence and it shows a desire to learn outside of your enviornment. Many of us grow up in the ghetto or poor, but that doesn't mean you have to adopt it into everything you say and or do.
A Man That Can Hold A Conversation
Most woman like to talk, but we also like to listen. The ability to hold a conversation means that one has the ability to both talk and listen, and when one speaks they speak with intelligence. There is nothing worse than going on a date with a man and he says nothing and lets you do all the talking. TALK MAN! Let me know what you are thinking, what your thoughts are! Let me know that you have a voice and an opinion, because if you don't then I will think you are weak, and strong women hate weak men. Contrary to popular belief, women don't like to do all the talking!
A Man That Can Walk Straight
There is nothing worse than a man who walks with a bop. Men think that that stupid jail house bop is cool but it is stupid and annoying to look at. The bop signifies no confidence, low self-esteem. It signifies that you don't have your life in order, and it signifies jail, ghetto and everything wrong,and a true woman does not want to bother with a man who can't walk right and whose life does not seem to be in order. A man that walks straight, signifies confidence, high self-esteem, and even if his life is a complete mess, I can't tell because he walks with his head up high. He may live in the ghetto, but he doesn't walk like he lives in the ghetto.
A Man That Wears His Pants Right
Truthfully, women love a man that can dress. We love a man that can dress down, but have no problem dressing in a suit. Nothing turns a womans panties wet than seeing a man in a suit one day and dress down in jeans or a jumpsuit the next. It shows he's versitile, and he is just sexy. It doesn't matter if he is cute, ugly or anything in between, if a woman sees a man in a suit one day and dressed down to the next she loves it! That crap with men wearing their pants hanging off that ass and that woman find it sexy is a lie! We hate that look, besides that fact that it's a ghetto look, we can't see the cut of your butt through your pants. We don't want to see you butt, leave room for imagination, but we want to look at a man with his pants up and the cut of his butt through his pants and wonder what his butt looks like, if his ass is tight, because all women are butt woman, we all love a man with a butt and our definition of a man with a butt is always different from a mans definition of his ass!
A Man With No Problem With Female Time
Most men complain about how much time women spend at the beauty parlor, in the nail salon, etc. We don't want to hear you complain. Just like you don't want to hear us complain about how much time you spend watching sports, we don't want to hear you complain about how much time we spend getting ourselves primped up. Just as sports is a mainly male thing, getting primped us is mainly a female thing. Don't complain about our gettting primped up and we won't complain about your sports!
A Man Who Knows The Meaning of King and Queen
A King is Confident, Sexy Mentally, Intellectually, Spiritually, and we seek that in man. There is nothing worse than listening to a man who thinks he ugly, old, dumb, thinks his dick is to small, thinks he's either too fat or too skinny, or whatever. We want a man who shows confidence even when he's not, who doesn't spend all his time complaining, who is intelligent, and has a belief in God know matter what his religion. A King is responsible, takes responsibility for his actions, doesn't blame others for his mistakes, honors his promises, doesn't make promises that he can't keep. A King takes care of his home, he doesn't allow anybody else to do it for him. He doesn't have the attitude, well if the next man wants to do it then let him do it. He knows how to be the king of his castle which means taking care of his family: his direct family first and his extended family next. He is not physical with his woman. He respects her, loves her, respects himself, loves himself. He knows that his Queen is the replica of the King.
Post your comments, ladies and gentlemen. Let me know if I have missed anything and what you think!